So one day, I'll have something to say.

Until then, just make sure you care for kids, care for your brothers and sisters, and care for your parents.
If you have disagreements, try being honest with yourself and think about why. Regardless of if you think you're right or wrong.
Try to imagine it from the other person's perspective.

The time to do this, will pay for itself in dividends.
We need to clear our emotional filters regularly.